In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
Disagreements between spouses are normal. At times the husband maybe right and at times the wife also could be right.
In order for us to appropriately answer your question we need to know in what ways your wife behaves arrogantly towards you and dishonours your requests.
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Mufti Saeed Ahmed Golaub
Islamic Solutions
Jamaica